失去
2023 我失去了很多， 我失去了我的弟弟， 我失去了我生爱的他， 我失去了我的方向， 我更失去了我的笑容， 到后面，我也失去了我自己！
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和你並肩同行 一起走過各種天氣 再冷 我都不覺得 委屈 但生命轉了彎 慌亂間我回頭看 卻失去你的 蹤跡 不想一睡不醒 免得錯過你的消息 忍著痛 忍不住了我就深呼吸 你說過的永遠 說好要帶我去 心颳著風下著雨 想著你往前進 愛 請問怎麼走 我一個人翻過山越過海 只為你對我好過 這份愛 前所未有 愛 為什麼不走 我也不懂誰勸我誰愛我 誰可以讓我解脫 你的吻像個溫柔 的符咒 不想一睡不醒 免得錯過你的消息 忍著痛 忍不住了我就深呼吸 你說過的永遠 說好要帶我去 心刮著風下著雨 想著你往前進 愛 (愛要怎麼走) 請問怎麼走 (愛要怎麼走) 我一個人翻過山越過海 只為你對我好過 這份愛 前所未有 愛 (愛要怎麼走) 為什麼不走 (愛要怎麼走) 我也不懂誰勸我誰愛我 誰可以讓我解脫 你的吻像個溫柔 的符咒 只想 等你 回頭 緊握 我的雙手 (緊握我的手) 想著你 (想著) 就能執著 不管多麼寂寞 我的苦 我的淚 我的理所當然 只要你說你懂 (只要你懂) 就足夠 (愛要怎麼走 愛要怎麼走) 我翻過山越過海只為你對我好過 這份愛 前所未有 愛 (愛要怎麼走) 為什麼 不走 是誰勸我誰愛我 誰可以讓我解脫 你的吻像個溫柔 的符咒
2023 has been tremendously painful for me. This year, I've been through a lot of things that actually broke me. I've lost some people I loved, and I have also found myself completely lost and devastated. The previous years were also sad for me, but this year really hurt me so bad. Nobody knows, but it took me everything to survive this year. I've been grieving, crying, screaming, and falling apart. And I'm quite mad, for I felt like the universe was so cruel to me. No one will ever understand the pain that I had to bear alone because no one even noticed that I was suffering silently. This year was so painful because I've been through betrayal, abandonment, disappointment, psychological abuse, emotional torment, and all the brutal things that a man could possibly do to hurt someone's feelings. I have died a hundred times, cried more than I could, and endured all those hurtful feelings all at once. But despite everything that happened, I'm still here, trying
I will never forget how you left me when I needed you most. One of my mistakes was believing that you were different from all the people who have hurt me before. You showed me how special I was to you, and you made me believe that you had good intentions. I've set aside all my fears and traumas and then trusted you with the promise that you would never try to hurt me too. You've seen my vulnerable side, and I completely allowed you to hold even the parts of me that were already broken. I thought I would finally be loved and treated well, but suddenly, you also made me feel so unwanted. You made me feel as if I was hard to love, and that really hurt me a lot. I will never forget how you turned into someone you promised you would never be. I was so disappointed, but most importantly, I was so hurt that it made me think I do not deserve to be loved genuinely. It made me think that I wasn't enough because I keep losing all the people who mean so much to me. I keep losing the o
this day...
2010 年 26年的这一天~ 我没有了笑容~ 九月四日再也没有意义了 我用了五年才开始笑一笑， 2023 年， 39年的这一天 我失去了很多很多， 我不是一个好孙女， 我不是一个好姐姐， 我更不是一个好女朋友。 我让大家失望了。 我又再失去了那个笑容， 还带上了很多眼泪。。。 心很痛很痛。。。 我以后再也不庆祝九月四日了。
its been 3 month.... how have you been.... have you been happier? i hope you are.... it seems like you do not want to talk to me anymore... you do not want to ask me anything anymore.... you do not want to dinner or climb with me anymore.... im not happy.... i cant smile.... i cant smile at work... i cant smile anywhere.... i can only bring myself to smile when i see you.... im so tired.... i cry myself to sleep everyday.... im really so tired.....
i wasnt enough for you to want me...
We had some really wonderful times together. The memories of the things we did together are there, and I still have the photographs of our adventures, and so many cute, romantic moments. But I can’t remember what they felt like. It’s been mere months since the day you left, and I honestly cannot remember how it felt when we were happy. I remember that I had been in love, that I had been happy, but I can’t for the life of me remember how that actually felt. There are many things I do remember: The pain of being dismissed and heart broken. The helplessness I felt when I learned that you had not told me about the finalise. The numbness I felt as I was being gaslighted and worn down. The heart which has been pierce in my chest in reaction to your impassiveness each and every time I told you that you were hurting me. I remember how it felt to be on constant alert, ensuring that I was beautiful, bubbly, happy and sweet, and how I thought that if I could be more , if I could communicate wit
Today marks the 100th day that finally my brother soul is in heaven! No one can understand what i have gone through, i still can remember freshly in my mind what happen in the DEM with just me and brother. the timing when i caught his last breathe and his ECG went flatline... all the crying of asking him to hold onto himself while waiting for cindy to come. the quiet conversation i had with him, the op i went thur with him, the days i cried when i learned about his cancer, all his little journey.... all the tears i hold back without letting my parents seen.... my little brother is gone... i hope you are in peace and happy whenever you are, 弟弟 . Come into our/ my dreams and tell me you are happy, please okie.
Last year this time, its my first message to you as i browse back! This year this time is a month of our broke up. 13 years ago, i was scumble to sadness for 5years, being taught to work hard, learn everything as i can, be independent, achieved and excel in my work. Just as i was learning to smile.... 13 years later, when i met you, i accept everything in you tho you were not my perfect one but to me you are perfect, you were my everything, i can give up travelling to have kids with you. i took things slow cos i want to treasure every little thing with you. i learn from my past, i learn to try to be more forgiving, be more understanding towards you & your kids, but why cant you just do the same towards. i told you i will support you no matter what happen, the road is uneven but we will get thur it, isnt it..... i felt like a failure now, i fell back into my sadness.
What does it mean to be happy?
We live in a time where many of us are obsess and worry about the future. We are elbowing and racing each other to see who can get there better and faster. Sometimes without even asking ourselves if "this is the pathway that i'm heading towards" Someone asked what is your definition of a healthy view of "happiness"? The achievement of certain milestones - a great career, a happy family, a large house - by the appropriate time. If we achieve these milestones, will we be happy? Or are we focused on appearing to be happy by others' definitions than actually being happy by our own. Everyone's definition of happiness differs. It is not to say that one definition of happiness is better another. What is more important is that we consider our options. Keep our eyes on your own journey and ask ourselves from time to time, what our definition of happiness is. Dig deeper than what our Facebook and Instagram feeds are telling us about what we want for our f
28th Feb 1519hrs We all knew this moment would eventually come but it came quickly and hit us hard. He look very peaceful as he sleep. Then everything happen very quickly. His irregular breathing shows a sign of declining. And slowly he took his last breathe, peacefully surrounded by us. My brother was diagnosis with tongue cancer last July. He underwent operation to remove and flap his oral cavity. Went through a series of RT & a session of Chemo. After the chemo, he was found to have TBD (Telomere Biology disorder). Every bi weekly for blood tranfusion due to unknown cause for his low blood. Just as we were celebrating the removal of his NGT & he could actually intake orally. Another new mass on his chest struck us with a prognosis of less than a year. And within a span of 2-4 weeks after detecting to restarting of RT, he deteriorate quickly and before we knew it, the tumor mass grew, pressing onto his trachea causing him to cough badly & SOB. This tumor mass is really a